Tidbits to live by from our parents and grandparents

Sayings passed down from parents and grandparents are more than just words; they’re pieces of wisdom, humor, and cultural heritage that connect generations. These expressions often encapsulate life lessons, values, and practical advice, offering guidance in a way that’s both memorable and meaningful.

Timeless Wisdom

Many of these sayings provide insights into life’s challenges and the importance of perseverance. For instance, a Southern favorite, “A stitch in time saves nine,” reminds us that addressing problems early can prevent bigger issues later on. Another common one, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease,” encourages assertiveness when seeking attention or assistance​ (Southern Living).

Words of Encouragement

Grandparents often share uplifting sayings that carry a wealth of emotional support. Phrases such as, “Listen to your heart. It’ll never steer you wrong,” and, “Live every day like it’s your last and you’ll never have regrets,” highlight the importance of self-trust and living life to its fullest​ (Creative Healthy Family).

Humor and Discipline

Some sayings are more playful or serve as gentle scoldings, reflecting the quirks of parenting. Many remember hearing, “Don’t make that face, or the wind will change, and you’ll stay like that,” a humorous warning aimed at children pulling faces. Or the often-heard, “Wait until your father gets home,” a classic line that signaled impending discipline​ (Starts at 60).

From Our Friends, Family, and Staff

Flourish in Place asked friends, family, and staff to tell us some of their favorite aphorisms from their parents and grandparents.  Here are their responses:

Flourish Family

My mom always wore lipstick, even at the breakfast table.  Her view was, once a lady puts on her lipstick, she can put her best foot forward and have a beautiful day! – Jackie

From Grandma Lee, “Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” – Kathryn

From Orville, “If they (people) knew how to do better, they would.” – Kathryn

From Grandma Lee, “Inch by inch, everything is a cinch.” – David

“Always be an optimist.” – Don

From my grandmother, “You have to make your own happiness.  No one else can make you happy.” – Linda

From my mother, “Your body is the temple that houses your soul.  Your soul belongs to God, so it’s your responsibility to take care of it by taking care of your body.” – Linda

From my maternal grandmother and Dad and Linda, “90% of success is showing up!” – Ashley

Flourish Friends

From my mother, “Let sleeping dogs lie.” – Katharine

Give your kids note cards and postage stamps. – Jeanne

From my mother, “There are two kinds of people in this world, givers and takers.  Be and seek out the givers.” – Stacy

From my mother, “No one lies in their deathbed thinking they should have worked more Saturdays.” – Donna

From my father, “Take good care of yourself.” – Meri Ellen

From my daddy, “Idleness is the devil’s workshop.” – Suzie

“Everything in moderation, and break a sweat every day doing something.” – Carla

Flourish Staff

Daddy told me to emulate people you admire. – Melanie

From my mom, “You can be anything you want to be.” – Kim

“Bad company ruins good character.” – Melissa

From my dad, “It seems like only yesterday that today was tomorrow!” – Kim

Whether they are wise, witty, silly, or a bit of all three, the advice passed down from our parents and grandparents are cherished reminders of the values and lessons that shape our lives. They not only connect us to our family’s past but also continue to offer guidance as we navigate the future.

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